Happy New Year!

Happy New Years from Tiale Land!

So what is your tradition for New Years?

In Tiale Land, each village takes a turn from the week of Christmas through New Years hosting the “New Years event”. Kids, youth, and adults gather together as they sing any 2 songs that they choose… but what’s the twist?

1. YOU HAVE TO GIVE THEM FOOD…

2. They have to sing songs to you at your house…

3. You can put WHATEVER you want all over them!

-Traditionally they used to use over-ripe to borderline fermented fruit such as bananas or papaya… then they added used cooking oil… now, anything goes! They love putting paint in bottles and squirting it at you… it does NOT come off! Clothes get ruined, you are dirty beyond a simple shower, and there are non-stop laughs and smiles as you participate. We might have added some things into our mix like: cement… hot sauce… etc. And they relished at the opportunity to get back at us.

All that to say… Happy New Years from the Stokes in Tiale Land to you all! We appreciate you all back home. God bless!

~Seth & Nicole Stokes

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Newsletter-December-2018

First and foremost, we want to say Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you, our support-team! We honestly could NOT be here doing what we are doing without your faithfulness to us and the ministry God has given us! Thank you for your faithfulness in your; giving, praying, encouragement and support!… Click on the link below to continue reading…

Newsletter-December-2018

Young girls Bible Study

Young girls Bible Study

Men's Bible Study

Men’s Bible Study

Your feet to the Tiale people,

Seth & Nicole Stokes

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Merry Christmas 2018!

MERRY CHRISTMAS from our family to yours, from Vanuatu.

Those of you who are blessed to have the privilege of being near family and enjoying them, do not miss out on that opportunity.

All excuses are inconsequential in light of eternity and the the brevity of life on this earth.

When in heaven, you won’t regret not getting an iPhone, you’ll regret not loving those in your sphere where God has strategically and purposefully placed you.

Love as if it were you last Christmas together… for EVERY missionary on the field, this 5 week stretch of holidays is hardest on them emotionally being isolated and away from family.

Merry Christmas! We love you all! It’s our privilege to be your feet to the Tiale People.

PS do not forget about the families of those who are overseas. This time is hard on them as well.

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Newsletter…

We have made some major renovations here on the Bible school  Campus; we have made three new dorms for married couples, and built a new building for 12 more Bible School Students. The “buzz” has been circulating about the school and we know of several couples and individuals who are interested in coming to the Bible School in May of 2019…

CLICK on the link below to keep reading…

Newsletter-10-11-18

Your feet to the Tiale people in Vanuatu,

~Seth & Nicole Stokes

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It’s a white Christmas after all!

We are well into the rainy season, with temperatures going well into the 110’s every day for the past two weeks, one day we clocked it at 115F, and humidity going into the high 80’s, how could we possibly have a white Christmas? Well, we defrosted our freezer and scraped the ice off its walls and had a snowball-fight with some of the local kids.

Snow-ball fight!

Many of them had never held ice before, we taught them that where we grew up, this falls on the ground for month’s at a time and then we hurl them at each other in a ball-shape and call it a snow-ball fight. They stood amazed and confused at this concept; because all they know is hot, more hot, and rain. It was a fun and yet short-lived event… until the next defrosting!

Happy (belated) Thanksgiving to you all (yinz), we had a somewhat “American-style” thanksgiving with about 30+ Americans from various organizations in town this year, it was a nice change of pace since we are far from our families. As we reflected upon this holiday season, we realized nothing can substitute or lessen the pain from being with family (Matt. 19:29) during the holidays or hard times… nothing. Only acknowledging our mission helps, which “transforms” our minds and compels us to think of other things, and remember the Reason for being here.

We had a great time with Nicole’s family being here, we were able to get a lot of projects done on the Bible school property, beauty-up our house a tad bit, and make some good memories as we took a break together for about a week; that helped refresh us and get ourselves ready for this next 6-month haul of being isolated in the village during the rainy season, with cyclones and flooding rivers which can come at a moments notice…

Enjoying family!

Another recent highlight was that our home church sent our Pastor, Deacon, and another friend along to visit us and encourage us! Seth got the privilege to co-teach with our pastor and translate for him as we taught many leaders about prayer; this truly was an amazing time! Especially since they had to hike and swim to get to us because the rivers were flooded!

Our Pastor and his brother visiting us

Our Deacon, Brian being welcomed at church

We got a lot of remodeling done thanks especially to Nicole’s father! He and Seth worked a lot together and remodeled 3 dorms for married couples, and built a brand new dorm, with new bunk beds.

Side view of double dorm for couples…

Double dorm for couples

Another dorm for couples

New bunk beds!

Brand new boys dorm!

A lot of work has been accomplished and there is already buzz circulating about the Bible School and many new prospective students are expressing interest in coming… we will have to wait until May 7th to see who shows up!

Pray that God brings the right group for this first year… Please continue to pray for the 4 men who are currently training to be Pastors. They are all back in their villages with their families. Two of the men live on another island, so Seth plans to write and call them on a weekly basis to encourage them, and the other two men live nearby and we will see them regularly. Continue to pray for their growth and maturation, the world, Satan, and the flesh do NOT want them to succeed.

Your feet to the Tiale People,

Seth and Nicole Stokes

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Urgent-Please Pray!!! Take #3

Hi everyone, this is mainly for those of you who are not on Facebook or might not have seen Seth’s post yesterday. Seth and the guys have attempted two separate times (two days) to cross the river but the rivers have been too big to be able to cross either with the truck or even swimming. Thankfully yesterday afternoon and last night the skies were clear. We are praying for today that they will be able to cross. They are taking life vests, tubes, and ropes to help them cross.

Your feet to the Tiale people,

Seth & Nicole Stokes

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Urgent: Prayer Needed!

Your feet amongst the Tiale people,

~Seth & Nicole Stokes

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Building Update

Hi everyone!

Just wanted to give you all a quick update on how things are going here on the building projects. It has been such a blessing to have Nicole’s parents here with us. Russ, Nicole’s dad, has been doing little jobs around our house during his “free time”. Everything has been going really well, despite the rain almost every afternoon. The brand new boys dorm has been finished and is already furnished with 6 new bunk beds. Every step of the projects has given lots of opportunities for the pastors in training to learn how to build. The next project is to work on the three dorms for married couples. Will share more later. Stay tuned for more photos!

As always,

Your feet here in Vanuatu,

Seth & Nicole Stokes

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Projects, Pastors, and Personnel

As we write this update to you all, we are currently underway in building the next facility at Big Bay Bible College. Thank you to all who gave! We received about 50% of the funds to complete the construction of the new dorms (facilities, beds, etc.). We know God is faithful and will take care of the mission He has given us, witnessing to the Tiale people here in Vanuatu, along with reaching into other language groups and even other islands!

Sundays=Hiking to nearby villages for church

Sundays=Hiking to nearby villages for church

Lord willing, by the end of this week the new dorm will be erected and remodelling will be underway with the other facilities. Of course language studies and discipleship have no end, whether it is helping with community projects, hosting teams, individuals, facing flooded rivers that have changed our plans several times, our ministry(s) are always progressing.

The new dorm building is underway!

The new dorm building is underway!

Culture always comes at us, more and more each day we see ourselves understanding their worldview better and learning more as to why they do what they do, and also what is important to them. They always says things like, “we have tricked other people, but you have learned us well… other people don’t know how we think, but we can’t hide things from you”. It is always encouraging to be viewed as an “insider”. Living here day in and day out, we get to see who people really are. It is always a blessing to learn some new insights about the people here and to see them grow in little ways in their faith, we guess that is why God gave us a promise as laborers we will get to enjoy the fruit firsthand (2 Tim. 2:6).

 

Nicole's "older brother"

Nicole’s “older brother”

The pastors in training are always growing, which is exciting! We just finished 1 Corinthians this past week and one of them said, “I want to tell God thank you for His word… I didn’t know what real love was until I read and studied 1 Corinthians 13”. Seth is always emphasizing spiritual maturity with the men as they study God’s Word. This is what one of the young men said regarding the Great Commission, “You have to have a father before you have a child, kid’s do not come first… too many people focus on having unwanted children, but not many try to make dads… that is the problem here in Vanuatu, too many children and no fathers”. God called us to make mature Christians not to just get them saved and leave them like an unwanted child. This is why we wanted to live among the people here and invest in the vision that God gave us.

Working in the garden

Working in the garden

Seth still meets with the Pastors often, mainly trying to focus on life-on-life discipleship with them, building relationships, and speaking into their lives as God ordains. Continue to pray for them, God is growing and stretching each one according to their own struggles.

Working on a kitchen = life-on-life discipleship

Working on a kitchen = life-on-life discipleship

Because of how the outreaches and preaching roster were constructed this year; we received feedback: “If it wasn’t for this calendar to keep us faithful, we would have lost one of our villages this year to a false religion… if it wasn’t for this calendar I would not have been faithful to any other place, I would not have encouraged those who needed it and would have neglected them just like I have for years… this calendar helps me pray for other villages… if it wasn’t for this calendar some of these villages would have pursued other religions… because of this calendar it kept me honest because I had accountability… now I choose when I go and do evangelism to villages that need it, before I only did it when other people told me to go, but now I mark the calendar and I choose for myself the villages to go to, before this calendar I always said I would go”… (As he smiled and said, “which was never”). Many things we do here impact deeper than we ever realize, this is an example of just one small thing the Lord led us to do to help keep things organized and hopefully expand our reach amongst the Tiale people.

Visiting a nearby village

Visiting a nearby village

Our home church is sending two members from our church to do a survey trip. One of which is our pastor and the other is a church member that Seth has known for almost 20 years. This will be an exciting (but very short) time! They will only be with us for less than 3 days, the other 3 days they will be in town with our co-workers’ ministry.

Mom and Dad Arrived!

Mom and Dad Arrived!

Nicole’s parents got the full experience! They arrived here, got off the plane… and then we began the trek of the 3-hour drive to get to our village. It had rained that day so we had to wait for about an hour for the water to go down… Seth had to hike to a nearby village and ask a few men to assist by giving us weight in the back of the truck so we did not get swept away by the river. Just a normal day in the place we live… this is the sixth time we have had to stop at the river and wait for it to go down… and we know this will happen many more times. Nicole’s parents were impressed with what it takes to just get to “our home”. They have integrated well, they are getting over jet lag, and have worked every day already. Russ and Seth are doing odd jobs around the house to finish it off before cyclone season, and Nicole and her mom work around the house, getting things cleaned well before the humidity comes again and encrusts everything with mold.

Thank you for your faithfulness in following us in our ministry! We apologize for the delay in this update!

Your feet to the Tiale people. Seth and Nicole Stokes.

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Outreach Update & What is the Church?

Seth is back with the four pastors in training; it was a profitable trip in more than one way, please go to our social media (Facebook and Instagram: @stokingthefires) to see all the pictures.

Heading out

Heading out

The river

The river

River crossings

River crossings

The river went over his head!

The river went over his head!

Seth and the men left midway through a monsoon, the river that was just knee-high 3-4 weeks ago swelled up to head-level as they hiked to the village of Vunakariakara. They crossed that river 26 times and got fatigued because heading to the village you go against the current. There was suppose to be men from that village who would accompany them and would help carry the 40lbs of nails and 70lbs of iron strapping, but they were too afraid of the river and never came, which forced Seth and the men to carry those supplies along with their typical: food, clothes, and tools to help build (Seth’s group brought 2 of 5 hammers in the village, for example).

After fighting the river and getting to the village (Wednesday), they got to work the next day (Thursday). The six men with about 10-12 villagers came together and began to haul the wood which was about two football field lengths away. All of the timber had been cut with a chainsaw by eye and no saw mill, which made cuts vary in thickness from 1-6 inch… yes, not an exaggeration. When the men started nothing was ready, it was marked out in a general area, but several posts got moved and nothing was secured. Seth has never built a truss for an A-frame house by himself before; luckily YouTube is a great teacher and Seth downloaded a few videos before he left. But by God’s grace, lunchtime (on Thursday) came around all trusses were made and the posts were in their general position. By the end of day one: posts were in, trusses were up, and cross braces were installed. All the people in the village were so surprised because they thought it was going to take two weeks… not two days. Day two (Friday), they installed and leveled all of the purlins making them ready for the corrugated steel roofing, and then installed the roofing and caps, by 3:30pm Friday, the roof was on and the men were playing soccer in the village. The weather went back and forth from rainy to sunny everyday, which made for a constant humid mess, but the Lord was gracious and kept everyone encouraged, even a local witchdoctor was surprised to see unity in the men as they served the local pastor, not asking for any compensation but doing the job with a joyful heart themselves. The difference between those who are consumed by fear and those possessing joy is easy to see. The next day (Saturday) Seth and the men went to work and prepared the church for the flat metal sheeting siding, they measured it out and made it ready for them for whenever they can purchase the $700 worth of materials.

Carrying the timbers...

Carrying the timbers…

Carrying the timbers...

Carrying the timbers…

The trusses in process

The trusses in process

Hard at work!

Hard at work!

Getting close...

Getting close…

Everyday (Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) in the evening, one of the four pastors in training led worship and then taught a message to 40+ people under the new church building. The pastor was so encouraged and challenged, seeing these men, three of which were half his age, handle God’s Word so well, he got up and told his people he is going to Bible School next year to get more training and to be discipled by Seth. He was convicted and saw his inadequacy and knew he needed more for his people. Next year, two of the current pastors in training (Isaiah and Patterson) will take over for this pastor for 6 months while he gets grown up in the faith.

So stoked!

So stoked!

Team work...

Team work…

Its coming together...

Its coming together…

The "thin" guys working on the roof

The “thin” guys working on the roof

Playing soccer

Playing soccer

Seth taught on what is the church, and what is its purpose, a simple message but one that was needed for the people. They all thought (including the pastor) the church was a physical building, and that it was a place they needed or else God was not be happy with them… some thought they needed the physical building or else they were not going to be saved?! You can now see the plea of their hearts as to why they wanted the building constructed so quickly, as they saw the previous church falling apart and almost unusable, they saw it as a picture of them losing their good standing with God. Seth explained that if a cyclone comes and removes this building, the church is still in the village, with them the believers in Christ, he used 7 of the analogies found in scripture to explain that the church is not a building but those who believe in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. As Seth was preaching, the people’s faces looked like lights coming on in the darkness, things were becoming clear, God doesn’t need human hands. God build’s is the eternal, and now they understood their salvation was not dependent on their building, it was almost as if everyone was relieved and took 50lbs backpacks off… This simple and yet profound truth is a testimony of the model our Lord left for us; not to throw John 3:16 grenades everywhere, leaving babies to fend for themselves, but to disciple people to maturity so that they can in tern train others in God’s Word effectively (disciples making disciples).

Kevin teaching...

Kevin teaching…

Working together

Working together

Finished side!

Finished side!

The completed Church!

The completed Church!

The old Church

The old Church

Patterson teaching...

Patterson teaching…

Two men from the village of Vunakariakara shared:

Thank you for teaching us the meaning of what the church really is, before we did not know and now we know and will live out that truth”.

 

Thank you for teaching us, some of us thought that coming to church saved us but thanks to your teaching we understand better it is through our belief in Jesus alone that saves us”.

Continue to pray for us as we invest in the Tiale people (and Vanuatu as a whole), not just helping them come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ, but to have Him become Lord of every part of their lives, which will enable them to know Him and His Word better for themselves.

Because of the temperatures of extreme heat and wet, cold, rain, and living six day in the bush Seth came back with a flu and the “usual” BM issues. After 24 hours, the flu dissipated but the other issues remain, he is now taking deworming and debugging meds and hopefully will be 100% at the end of the 3-day cycle.

Thank you to everyone who prayed for Nicole as well while Seth was gone. She had a great time with the girls that stayed with her. If you would like to see pictures from her time, go to our Instagram. They kept themselves busy with things like baking cookies, going to the river to help Pastor Gabby get sand for his new kitchen being cemented, fishing, catching craw-fish, church, making bracelets, and of coarse making food for the group for each meal. It was a very memorable and special time together!

Thank you for all your prayers!

Your feet to the unreached, Seth & Nicole Stokes

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